My Favorite Zen Story
Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 9:34 am
Post subject: My Favorite Zen Story
Dear Honored Guest,
In a remote village in Japan there lived a Zen master named Hakuin. He was known for his devotion to the pure and simple life of a monk.
One day, a beautiful, unmarried girl in the village fish market was found to be with child. As it was a conservative village, the family was furious. The girl refused to say who the father was, but after much pressure, she finally admitted that the father was the master Hakuin.
In great anger the family confronted the master, criticizing him for taking advantage of the trust he had been shown. They asked him, “How could you have betrayed our trust so badly?” Hakuin’s only response was to say calmly, “Is that so?”
Hakuin’s reputation was destroyed, but he did not appear to mind. When the baby was born it was brought to Hakuin. He took great care of the child, though he now had to beg to survive. The villagers would scorn him, saying, “We will never forget that you betrayed our trust, you miserable monk.” Each time, Hakuin would reply calmly, “Is that so?”
Several years later, the young mother finally confessed the truth: the baby’s father was not Hakuin, but another young man from the village who had not been willing to accept his obligation, so she had accused the monk knowing that he would do the right thing.
The villagers went to Hakuin to request the return of the child, saying, “We are so sorry, how could we ever have believed this of you?”
Relinquishing back to the family the child who had become his own, Hakuin said gently, “Is that so?”
Respectfully submitted,
Patrick M. Byrne
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January 29th, 2008 at 1:58 pm
I really appreciate this. I’m fascinated with all things Japanese right now. I’ve practiced Zen for a few years. Still, this is difficult in the extreme. Saint-like. I appreciate the story.
It illustrates the battle within, between ambition and peace. I’m constantly seeking the balance between the two.
Joshua McClure
Founder, WidowPC
January 29th, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Josh,
The more they spit the easier it gets.
Patrick
February 10th, 2008 at 7:09 pm
How horrible for the monk! I get that it’s great that he is so forgiving and saintly but seriously? I would think there is a point were it’s better to stand up for your self, your beliefs and others. I can’t see the monk forgiving a child molester for hurting that child the same way he forgave the vilige for disgracing him. There are limits to how much any man will take.
March 23rd, 2008 at 5:25 pm
That’s one of my favorites as well.